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Wahhhh, I can't control my husband!!!

http://community.livejournal.com/_marriedlife_/463776.html?view=10265504

OK, seriously, this chick pisses me off. She knew she was allergic to ciggarette smoke and her husband had promised to quit but she still married him before he had.
Then when she gets called on trying to control her husband, she adds a whiney edit.
Maybe it's just me, but I get sick of spouses who think that the vows they take in a marriage ceremony automatically give them the right to control their spouse.

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sarakenobi
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:40 pm (UTC)
I just don't understand why she couldn't have solved this BEFORE. and every smoker I know, descreet or not, always smells slightly of smoke so she was deluding herself if she thought he stopped. if she is as allergic as she says, she would sneeze everytime he walkedin the room. ... at least I would.

its really crappy to want him to change NOW and be upst. granted the lying thing would piss me off, but really.. wtf
haddassah
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:50 pm (UTC)
Yeah the lying would piss me off also. The thing is, when he didn't follow thru on his promise to quit, he in essence lied and she allowed it, thus, she has set the pattern that says it is ok for him to lie.

She is a whiney bitch.
sarakenobi
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:56 pm (UTC)
yes! and the lying is the problem, not really the smoking part but she culdn't focus on that and then got all defensive and whiny about it. I just... ugh. She should quit "joking" with her husband and tell him she is seriously upset that he lied and she wants to help him quit smoking.
dani_oso
Jan. 1st, 2007 08:54 pm (UTC)
she was deluding herself

I missed this drama, but omg, I agree. I started smoking while I was dating a vehement non-smoker. I smoked for maybe a month before we broke up. When I finally told him, he acted so shocked. I believe he was just in ~*~denial~*~.
sarakenobi
Jan. 1st, 2007 08:57 pm (UTC)
its true. we can make ourselves believe so many different things if we try hard enough!

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