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Wahhhh, I can't control my husband!!!

http://community.livejournal.com/_marriedlife_/463776.html?view=10265504

OK, seriously, this chick pisses me off. She knew she was allergic to ciggarette smoke and her husband had promised to quit but she still married him before he had.
Then when she gets called on trying to control her husband, she adds a whiney edit.
Maybe it's just me, but I get sick of spouses who think that the vows they take in a marriage ceremony automatically give them the right to control their spouse.

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ladyartemisa
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:31 pm (UTC)
omg i was hoping someone would post this here.
she needs to stop. really.
haddassah
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:35 pm (UTC)
I like how she is whining and then whining when called on her original whining.

Of course, what do I know, I've only been with my husband for 9 years and he doesn't lie to me.

I give that marriage 2 years tops....and that's being generous.
ladyartemisa
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:36 pm (UTC)
they have been married A MONTH!!! wtf??
sarakenobi
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:40 pm (UTC)
I just don't understand why she couldn't have solved this BEFORE. and every smoker I know, descreet or not, always smells slightly of smoke so she was deluding herself if she thought he stopped. if she is as allergic as she says, she would sneeze everytime he walkedin the room. ... at least I would.

its really crappy to want him to change NOW and be upst. granted the lying thing would piss me off, but really.. wtf
haddassah
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:50 pm (UTC)
Yeah the lying would piss me off also. The thing is, when he didn't follow thru on his promise to quit, he in essence lied and she allowed it, thus, she has set the pattern that says it is ok for him to lie.

She is a whiney bitch.
sarakenobi
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:56 pm (UTC)
yes! and the lying is the problem, not really the smoking part but she culdn't focus on that and then got all defensive and whiny about it. I just... ugh. She should quit "joking" with her husband and tell him she is seriously upset that he lied and she wants to help him quit smoking.
dani_oso
Jan. 1st, 2007 08:54 pm (UTC)
she was deluding herself

I missed this drama, but omg, I agree. I started smoking while I was dating a vehement non-smoker. I smoked for maybe a month before we broke up. When I finally told him, he acted so shocked. I believe he was just in ~*~denial~*~.
sarakenobi
Jan. 1st, 2007 08:57 pm (UTC)
its true. we can make ourselves believe so many different things if we try hard enough!
nectarines
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:45 pm (UTC)
But she quit chewing her nails! She understands about addiction!
jenni_goes_grrr
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:47 pm (UTC)
I quit smoking AND chewing my nails this year I should win the worlds BEST SPOUSE award..
haddassah
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:51 pm (UTC)
I'll have it sent as soon as the engraving is done. LOL
jenni_goes_grrr
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:57 pm (UTC)
thank you - i'll be waiting
sarakenobi
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:57 pm (UTC)
HOOORAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ladyartemisa
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:49 pm (UTC)
omg she is leaving her husband!!!!!
haddassah
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:52 pm (UTC)
What???
ladyartemisa
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:55 pm (UTC)
she edited her post again with a whiny little "i am a horrible person i guess i should just leave him".
bellasmommy
Dec. 31st, 2006 12:43 am (UTC)
I think we need to add another rule to the community:

No flouncy edits.
haddassah
Dec. 31st, 2006 12:53 am (UTC)
Shit, I looked at her info page, and she lives here in Portland.....I swear, The stupid is strong in many here in Portland.
washironfucketc
Dec. 31st, 2006 05:48 am (UTC)
Just to give you a heads up, she deleted her original post, and post a new wah wah wah with comments disabled.
bellasmommy
Dec. 31st, 2006 02:37 pm (UTC)
Taken care of. *sigh*

I *really* wish people would read the community info.
haddassah
Dec. 31st, 2006 05:49 am (UTC)
She also deleted the post, but not before getting this comment into me:



NO LIFE! OMGZ I HAVE TO GO READ SOMEONE ELES'S JOURNAL SO I CAN TALK SHIT
ABOUT SOMETHING I KNOW NOTHING ABOUT.

BTW, your advice sucks ass, I suggest you not suggest or advice people in
here anymore.

On another note, my husband quit. :P So to all you who are like "why did
you even marry him then?" can kiss my ass.


Can we ban her? Pleeeeeeeeeease!!!
washironfucketc
Dec. 31st, 2006 05:52 am (UTC)
She broke 2 rules :)

DAMN DISABLED COMMENTS!!
bellasmommy
Dec. 31st, 2006 02:38 pm (UTC)
I tracked all the comments once I saw drama was starting, so I do have all of them and saw what she said (and what some others said).

I don't think it was cool of people to go to her personal journal come back to ML and say "HEY GUYS LOOK AT HOW DUMB SHE IS". That wasn't necessary, I don't think.

But, um lol @ him quitting. It takes more than one day.
ladyartemisa
Dec. 31st, 2006 06:58 pm (UTC)
man why did i have to go to sleep? i missed the second post.. :(
haddassah
Dec. 31st, 2006 07:33 pm (UTC)
As one of the people who is guilty of that, I agree that was wrong of me.
Honestly, I do feel badly.
haddassah
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:55 pm (UTC)
Ohhh....this is rich. It's so delicious it should be fattening.

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!
ladyartemisa
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:56 pm (UTC)
LJ. my anti drug. :p
sarakenobi
Dec. 30th, 2006 11:57 pm (UTC)
um, also, i chew my nails, should my husband leave me? :(
washironfucketc
Dec. 31st, 2006 05:50 am (UTC)
Original post deleted.

New friends locked post waaaaaaaaahing about "effing" drama, with comments disabled.

She's a gem.
sarakenobi
Dec. 31st, 2006 05:51 am (UTC)
OINORITE! i hope there is a banhammer on the stupidity
clairespawprint
Dec. 31st, 2006 05:55 am (UTC)
I feel soooo sorry for her husband. I bet the DRAMA gets pretty thick at home too.....

haddassah
Dec. 31st, 2006 05:57 am (UTC)
No kidding. Man, if I had to deal with that, I would shove an ice pick into my ears and then put the ciggarettes out in the blood.
washironfucketc
Dec. 31st, 2006 06:07 am (UTC)
I feel bad for him too. I don't enjoy my husband's smoking, but he's a grown man, and I'm not his mommy.
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